Light through the glass

Simulator

Both panels are the same lens at the same moment. Like any ray diagram this one is drawn to two scales, stretched across the axis and squashed along it, and the aperture is drawn smaller again so that a long fast lens still fits the panel. What is true to the numbers is the difference between the two views.

Horizontal focal length 
Vertical focal length 
Field of view 
Delivered aspect 
18 mm135 mm
Lens
Where the squeeze is done
Sensor
Try these
A spherical element cut from above and from the side: the same curve, and the same focus, in both Spherical element from above from the side focusesfocuses
Every surface is part of a sphere, so there is nothing to tell the two cuts apart. One focal length, the one engraved on the barrel.
A cylindrical element cut from above, where it is curved and focuses, and from the side, where it is a flat slab the light goes straight through Cylindrical element from above from the side focusesdoes nothing
Curved across, straight along. Put one in front of a spherical lens and the horizontal focal length changes while the vertical one does not: two focal lengths in one barrel.

One lens, two focal lengths

A spherical lens is the same lens whichever way up you hold it: every surface is part of a sphere, so light is bent by the same amount in every direction. Put one cylindrical surface in the path and that stops being true. The lens now has one focal length across the frame and a different one up it, and every strange and desirable thing about anamorphic follows from that.